[XAML]
<Style TargetType="TabItem">
<Setter Property="BorderThickness" Value="3"/>
<Setter Property="BorderBrush" Value="Red"/>
<Setter Property="Background" Value="LightBlue"/>
<Setter Property="VerticalContentAlignment"
Value="Center"/>
<Setter Property="HorizontalContentAlignment"
Value="Center"/>
<Setter Property="Template">
<Setter.Value>
<ControlTemplate TargetType="{x:Type TabItem}">
<Border>
<Grid>
<Grid>
<Border CornerRadius="3,3,0,0" Background="{TemplateBinding
Background}"
BorderBrush="{TemplateBinding BorderBrush}"
BorderThickness="{TemplateBinding BorderThickness}"/>
</Grid>
<Border BorderThickness="{TemplateBinding BorderThickness}"
Padding="{TemplateBinding Padding}">
<ContentPresenter ContentSource="Header"
HorizontalAlignment="{TemplateBinding
HorizontalContentAlignment}"
VerticalAlignment="{TemplateBinding
VerticalContentAlignment}"/>
</Border>
</Grid>
</Border>
</ControlTemplate>
</Setter.Value>
</Setter>
</Style>